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Tell me about yourself, without sounding rehearsed

Marcus Chen

Engineering Manager, B2B SaaS15 minAustin, TX

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Ninety seconds, three beats, and a last line that hands over the next question. The failure is almost never nerves. It is starting too early in your own history.

Sep 8, 20267 minutes

Answer the question they asked

They did not ask for your history. They asked why you are sitting there, and the honest structure of the answer is: this is what I do, this is the thing I am known for, this is why I am talking to you. In that order and in about ninety seconds.

Almost everybody instead starts at the first job and walks forward. It feels complete and it is the most common reason an interviewer stops listening before the interesting part, because the interesting part is at the end and they never reach it.

The three beats, with a timer

Twenty seconds on where you are now and what it involves. Forty on the one thing you would want them to remember, a project, a problem, a shift you led, with one number in it. Thirty on why this conversation, which is the bridge into their next question.

Write it, then say it out loud, then cut a third. It will be too long. Everybody's is too long, and the version you can say in ninety seconds is a different piece of writing from the version you can read in ninety seconds.

Rehearsed is a smell

There is a flatness a memorised answer has and interviewers hear it immediately. It is not about the words. It is that the delivery does not change when the room does, and a question asked slightly differently gets the same paragraph back.

So learn the three beats, not the sentences. Say it five times and let it come out differently each time. What you are building is a shape you can fill, not a script you can lose your place in.

Then get interrupted

The version of this you can deliver alone in a room is not the version that has to survive somebody cutting in at second forty. That is a separate skill and it only exists under interruption.

Marcus Chen runs the hiring-manager version and interrupts the setup. Aisha Okafor lets you finish and then asks what you personally did. Both are worth doing, and the order that works is Aisha first.

Who this is about

Marcus Chen

Engineering Manager, B2B SaaS

Marcus manages eleven engineers and has hired most of them himself. He takes notes on paper because a laptop between him and the candidate changes what people say. He asks the same three questions in every interview, a conflict, a failure, a change of mind, and has stopped being surprised by how many people cannot answer the second one. He is not trying to catch you out. He is trying to find out what you will be like on a bad Tuesday. Every time you say 'we', he will ask what you did. He does not mind silence while you think; he minds a rehearsed answer to a question he did not ask.

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